16 Jan 2022 19:55:08
Ok I've came on to apologise, not normally a thing i love doing but i will. Why because of my childish f#n replys on here yesterday. Perko/ ff79 if your 4ft odd bring it on any taller i owe you both a pint. Anyway not going to slaver too much, far from proud hated myself all day if it helps.

Said on here a while ago the drink became a friend of mine on weekends. Couldn't get ta see the grandkids so started early. Which acts as a domino effect . talking out my ar#e etc. I deserve all the sh#t on here and more today (apart from that red tan) what a muppet.

Anyway thanks to all those who did fight my corner. Luv ya reds, i used this site to keep me sane. My enemy the drink played me along. i'm really sorry, again perko/ 79 take care.


1.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:20:17
No need to apologise to me, I always know it's the drink talking.
Drink is never a friend when you have too much.
Mate if you have problems? You won't find an answer at the bottom of a glass.
Just saying. Xx.


2.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:31:48
Bowie I'm going to have a word with you next Saturday stop apologising u have no reason to Stella's my best girl u will be fine mate everyone on here are all Friends even if we banter and argue and not met each other looking forward to seeing u next week and everyone else that can get.


3.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:38:42
Just hate myself 79, absolutely hate myself. The drink drowns my sorrows for a short while . Then i just become this complete d#ck. i'm going to be totally honest here. When i look the next day i just feel like jekyll and hyde . i'm going to get help mate. And cannot thank you enough for calling me mate. This really is my last on here for a while. Luv ya son .


4.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:45:12
Bless ya skegs 👍 thank you.


5.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:45:15
Bowie.
I have not messaged before but I have read regularly for years.
Just wanted to say that i'm glad to see you back on here today.
Please don’t hate yourself. Clearly had a bad day and looking for an outlet and we have all done that.

Anyway looking forward to next week.
COME ON YOU REDS!


6.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:47:34
Well said Skeggsy, wish I could be there too, we'd all have the best laugh.


7.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 20:50:34
Bang on skeggs everyone that is on here should turn up if they want at the TBI on Saturday, especially carlo and 2 star as they have been on here for ever.
I propose a toast to redinexile, who was the most articulate poster and is sadly missed.
Glass of red to you redinexile 🍷🍷.


8.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 21:14:33
Bowie, I’m saying this not to pry or patronise or lecture or anything like that but with genuine concern for your welfare Have you considered counselling? I mean professional counselling for the drink and consequences mental health wise.
Forgive me if I am speaking out of turn but as you can imagine I have experience ( though indirectly) in my Police career of colleagues who have suffered through their experiences and private lives and taken refuge in drink which masks the internal problems. What with the often terrible things we have seen, the long hours, the breakup of marriages, the stress etc the results are destructive in the extreme.
I had many colleagues who are tough characters, hard as nails who swore counselling and support got them through. I can’t recommend individual counsellors as it was all done “in house” but help is out there mate and I urge you to seek it out. All the best mate, hope I haven’t caused offence.


9.) 16 Jan 2022
16 Jan 2022 21:31:20
DONT stop posting Bowie Me owd mate, we all try to be mate’s on here, we’ve all had a few drinks to many at times, to many a lot of times, look at me over Christmas and New Year, like you say what a t##t, but it don’t make us bad people mate, yer we may need a little help, just posting on here helps me as I’m sure it does you, talking/ posting helps, as does taking the p##s at times and having a laugh, so don’t stop posting, accepting that we have a problem is a start. Buck up canny lad, or geordie git you’ll be fine man, as you say just don’t hurt those around you the ones you love 😉👍.